I have lived for years with the underlining thought that it was by my own hand that my relationships did not work because I simply did not know what a healthy relationship was. But what I found with Ms. Mclarys book was page after page of text that spoke only to me. What a blessing. I recommend this book not only to those like myself looking for the perfect match, but to the countless people I meet who are unhappy with their relationships and feel lost. This book is a snuggle for the heart and a laugh for the soul.