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	• The Thing About Life Is That One Day You'll Be Dead David Shields Knopf, 2008 - 256 pages average customer review:based on 75 reviews view larger image
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highly recommended

I enjoyed this book, but found it more to be a memoir of the author's life.

The author's obsession with death is revealed throughout the book. The interesting question is: `Do atheists and theists view death in the same light?' If you read books by saints or religious people, you'll find that indeed they welcome death. Death to them is not an end but a beginning. At death, we are reunited with our loved ones. The world of the dead is another world where we are as much alive as in this world.

Throughout our body, since conception, a process of birth and death is taking place every second--new cells are born while old ones die. Our body is attuned to the constant bombardment of birth and death taking place, yet we--the part that is not the body (call it spirit or soul)--are not. Why? Why do some people welcome death while others shun away from it? Would we be scared of dying if there was no love in this world? These are actually very interesting questions to ponder.

A lot of the book was about the author's relationship with his father. I found some chapters slow. I wanted the author to go more into the core of life and death. Maybe I missed something. Maybe the author wanted us to learn about death through his relationship with his father. If he did, I missed the point. I also found too much personal information about the author and his family that distracted me from the essence of the book. For example, the author talks about his sex life, his girlfriend's herpes, and his acne during his youth. Was the book meant as a biography or a memoir?

I did like the scientific information included, such as the difference in size between a girl's and a boy's brain and the physiology of ageing.

Some interesting chapters in the book:

Our birth is nothing but our death begun: existence is warfare. Human beings have existed for 250,000 years; during that time, 90 billion individuals have lived and died.

Decline and fall: All mammals age; the only animals that don't age are some of the more primitive ones: sharks, alligators, Galapagos tortoises. Schopenhauer said, "Just as we know our walking to be only a constantly prevented falling, so is the life of our body only a constantly prevented dying, an ever-deferred death."

Life is that which gives meaning to life: life is perfected by death.
How to live forever: In ancient Greece, old men were advised to lie down with beautiful virgins.

Towards the end of the book you'll realize that we are not learning how to live, but how to die.

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Bits and Pieces about Life

The Thing About Life Is That One Day You'll Be Dead contains a mixture of an autobiography and facts about the body's growing and aging. The stories told and the given facts both humor and depress readers. Rather than linearly cover author David Shields' life from childhood to adulthood sprinkled with quotes and stories about his and his father's lives, the chapters jump around with random thoughts and stories.

One chapter might tell a story about Shields' teen years, or another support facts that his father's quite the stud, while another does nothing but quote statistics. Whether a reader will like this roundabout tactic probably largely depends on the reader's life, age, and gender. The description of Shields' father sowing-oats lifestyle might turn off a woman in her 30s. However, I can relate to some of Shields' writing as a fellow parent. He discusses living and thinking as a father.

Though Shields explores the father-son relationship, it won't tap a female reader's memories much as it would a male's. I recently lost my own father and had a great relationship with him. This book didn't compel me to think about our times together. However, men past their 30s might recall their relationships with their fathers or see hope for them as they age.

Sometimes the reader will think, "Who cares?" or "That's fascinating." Sometimes readers will laugh and sometimes readers will turn depressed at the thought of aging and dying. No matter the age, readers will go through a range of emotions in reading this stream of thoughts writing.

Readers wanting to understand the aging process without the scientific-speak might appreciate Shields' approach with its mix of storytelling and giving facts in a flowy way instead of the way a doctor would describe aging. Shields' writing easily captivates, whether or not readers like the contents.

Shields shares embarrassing and personal things about his teen and adult years that many wouldn't share with anyone. This provides readers -- especially men -- with the opportunity to know they aren't alone in experiencing similar situations. As a woman, I know I would appreciate a female sharing such experiences to confirm I'm not the only one who experienced something or felt a certain way about something.

Truth is - whether you'll like Shields' writing depends on your experiences, taste for a non-linear style book, and the flip-flopping between story and statistics. It should please those who'd love to be fly on the wall in a man's life or read about health and living in the same way as a history book, only without the dull educational writing style that tends to appear in many health and history books.

Rating: 3.5 out of 5 stars

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The Thing about Reading this Book is that Someday You'll be Finished

(Thank goodness!)

A near-terminal case.

Author David Shields runs this book along parallel and often intersecting tracks. One is a litany of facts regarding the birth, maturation and aging process. The other consists of reflections on his own life and, particularly, the life of his 97-year old father.

Not everyone will find this a novel revelation (Hey - people age and die! Who knew???!) or a fascinating story.

The chapters offering straight biological facts and others that consist of a multipage succession of quotations seem like "filler," a data vomit.

"The Thing About Life" stops just short of being a complete waste of time. Not a terrible book, but bordering on the lame-oh...Hence the three-star rating.

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If you want to know what the book is about read the last sentence (yes, the LAST, the FINAL sentence)

I was so excited about reading this book, finally a book that would make me feel somewhat normal about the existential anxiety that some of us experience. Yes, we are all going to die...a fact of life, that is so hard to accept. The book is cleverly organized into chapters that represent the stages of life: Infancy & Childhood--> Adolescence --> Adulthood & Middle Age --> Old Age & Death. David Shields interweaves narrative about his relationship with his father with relevant facts and quotations. The trivia part of the book is great in that it stands on its own and requires for the reader to interpret it (and actually think about it). The narrative is just as fragmented though and did not capture my attention in the similar way. It is a unique book...but something was lacking for me. It was neither here nor there. David Shield's narrative can be summarized in the last sentence: "He always wins -- except in the sense that in the end he'll lose, as we all do." Shields' admiration for his father and fascination with his graceful aging is consistently paralleled with the existential/philosophical/factual ideas or more specifically, just one -- we are all losers in the game of life. All in all, it is worth reading. It will definitely give you something to think about.

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Somewhat interesting

Some fascinating facts, interwoven with his own father-son story. But kind of depressing and weird. Well, life is no rose garden, and neither can every book be!

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?David Shields has accomplished something here so pure and wide in its implications that I almost think of it as a secular, unsentimental Kahlil Gibran: a textbook for the acceptance of our fate on earth.? ?Jonathan Lethem

Mesmerized?at times unnerved?by his ninety-seven-year-old father?s nearly superhuman vitality and optimism, David Shields undertakes an investigation of the human physical condition. The result is this exhilarating book: both a personal meditation on mortality and an exploration of flesh-and-blood existence from crib to oblivion?an exploration that paradoxically prompts a renewed and profound appreciation of life.

Shields begins with the facts of birth and childhood, expertly weaving in anecdotal information about himself and his father. As the book proceeds through adolescence, middle age, old age, he juxtaposes biological details with bits of philosophical speculation, cultural history and criticism, and quotations from a wide range of writers and thinkers?from Lucretius to Woody Allen?yielding a magical whole: the universal story of our bodily being, a tender and often hilarious portrait of one family.

A book of extraordinary depth and resonance, The Thing About Life Is That One Day You?ll Be Dead will move readers to contemplate the brevity and radiance of their own sojourn on earth and challenge them to rearrange their thinking in unexpected and crucial ways.