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Escape
Carolyn Jessop, Laura Palmer

Broadway, 2007 - 432 pages

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An Amazing Story

Carolyn's story is amazing and I couldn't put the book down - it should be made into a movie.


Mesmerizing

Since it's such a vast departure from mainstream monogamy, polygamy has intrigued me for as long as I can remember. The raid in Texas earlier this year fueled my fire. Prior to reading "Escape," I also read "His Favorite Wife," and "Shattered Dreams." While I enjoyed reading both of the other books, "Escape" is vastly different and in a good way. Somehow in this book, you feel like you're more a part of what's going on - you can almost feel like you're there with Carolyn Jessop as she tells the story of her life.

What the reader discovers is that polygamy is not what it appears to be. It's much less about consenting adults who choose to live a particular lifestyle than it is about the complete oppression of the female gender under the guise of eternal salvation. From birth, the children who are unfortunate to be born into this cult are indoctrinated a/k/a "brainwashed" to conform to the cult's bizarre beliefs. Some of it was incredibly hard to digest... the word "fun" was outlawed! The color red was outlawed! Compliments were discouraged! Child abuse was encouraged! Affection between a mother and her child was a punishable offense. Children were taught that they did not belong to their mothers, but to the prophet Warren Jeffs, and that he had complete control over their destiny. In exchange for their absolute subservience, followers were promised eternal salvation. Women have no rights whatsoever in any aspect of their lives. On the other hand, men have absolute power, but only as long as they remain in favor by staying in compliance with Jeffs. The author was fortunate enough to crave knowledge and to grow up prior to Jeffs coming to full power. Because of this she was able to acquire a college education, but she fought for it. I think this is what gave her the edge to do what she needed to do to escape. Knowledge is power, and that is why Jeffs eventually outlawed public school and decreed that children were to stay home.

Warren Jeffs is a barbaric and sinister leader. He led by fear and intimidation. Children could be taken from their mothers at any time, and wives and children could be reassigned to another man on Jeffs' whim. Teenage girls as young as 14 were ordered to marry 80 year-old men. Mothers and daughters were married to the same man. Men and boys were excommunicated for the slightest and oftentimes false infractions. Jeffs ordered the torture of animals and forced children to watch this torture, and once ordered the execution of all dogs in the community. He sodomized young boys. Jeffs is one sick man, who at the time of his arrest had amassed close to 200 wives. I personally hope that he rots in prison, and then rots for eternity in hell.

I finished this book in less than a week. I found myself reading it every chance I got... on lunch breaks... at stoplights... after dinner. It was captivating, and I just couldn't wait to delve even more into this remarkable story of survival. Carolyn Jessop managed to find the strength to fight for her own freedom and for her children's freedom - and win. I find myself wondering, "What would I have done in the same circumstance?" Could you or I have found the same strength to escape? I'm just glad that is something I'll never have to find out.



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didn't want to put it down

This book was extremely entertaining, but at the same time disturbing and incredulous. It is particularly relevant now with the raid on the FLDS compound in Texas (the same one from the book, they have moved). Reading it, I found it hard to believe that there are people living that way in modern times in the U.S. Even more difficult to understand is why she didn't escape much earlier. These women are not chained up in the basement. The author went to college, had a career, and actually lived in other cities away from the sect for stretches of time. It just goes to show that even when the members are physically away from the "compound", they are still mentally ensnared in its grasp.


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Don't Throw the Baby Out With the Bath Water!

Just because the baby is sitting in dirty water doesn't mean that the baby should be tossed out too!

I loved the book. Read it in less than a week, even though I am busy with 8 children of my own. I absolutely loved her honesty and have no problem believing that she was rarely out of line. It is possible to be blameless among predators.

However, as I neared the end of the book I began to have a heavy-hearted feeling. When I set the book down for the last time, it dawned on me that Carolyn's experiences with religion has caused her to turn her back on God. This is a sad thing.

I really hoped that Carolyn would use her voice to help people learn what it is to know God apart from religious foolishness and evil.

Just because a hospital causes a death we do not abandon hospitals; just because some schools ruined some of our childhood years, does not mean that we give all public education zero credit. If that is our practice, then we are cold and unthinking. I know that Carolyn loves to think and discern, and I do hope that she uses wisdom when speaking of God.

I hope that Carolyn can learn (or has already learned) to separate God from mankind's idiotic stupidity, and find true Spirituality.

I'm not blaming her for anything, in fact, I've been in a similar circumstance as she (I have 10 children); and I did lose sight of the Truth for a time because of a religious zealot who deceived me, used me and shafted me right to the end.

God seems silent during these times, yet His Grace really should amaze us. Carolyn should thank Him that because of her book, she is set for life financially. She will never have to ask another man for anything again. :) Now who's go the power?!! - Soni




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The dramatic first-person account of life inside an ultra-fundamentalist American religious sect, and one woman?s courageous flight to freedom with her eight children.

When she was eighteen years old, Carolyn Jessop was coerced into an arranged marriage with a total stranger: a man thirty-two years her senior. Merril Jessop already had three wives. But arranged plural marriages were an integral part of Carolyn?s heritage: She was born into and raised in the Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (FLDS), the radical offshoot of the Mormon Church that had settled in small communities along the Arizona-Utah border. Over the next fifteen years, Carolyn had eight children and withstood her husband?s psychological abuse and the watchful eyes of his other wives who were locked in a constant battle for supremacy.

Carolyn?s every move was dictated by her husband?s whims. He decided where she lived and how her children would be treated. He controlled the money she earned as a school teacher. He chose when they had sex; Carolyn could only refuse?at her peril. For in the FLDS, a wife?s compliance with her husband determined how much status both she and her children held in the family. Carolyn was miserable for years and wanted out, but she knew that if she tried to leave and got caught, her children would be taken away from her. No woman in the country had ever escaped from the FLDS and managed to get her children out, too. But in 2003, Carolyn chose freedom over fear and fled her home with her eight children. She had $20 to her name.

Escape exposes a world tantamount to a prison camp, created by religious fanatics who, in the name of God, deprive their followers the right to make choices, force women to be totally subservient to men, and brainwash children in church-run schools. Against this background, Carolyn Jessop?s flight takes on an extraordinary, inspiring power. Not only did she manage a daring escape from a brutal environment, she became the first woman ever granted full custody of her children in a contested suit involving the FLDS. And in 2006, her reports to the Utah attorney general on church abuses formed a crucial part of the case that led to the arrest of their notorious leader, Warren Jeffs.




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