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Stepparenting
Jannette Lofas

Citadel, 2004 - 241 pages

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For the Bio parent and Stepparent!

Although Lofas has updated things since this book was originally published, this is a great resource. One thing that sets this book apart from the numerous others on stepparenting is that it speaks to the biological parent as well as the stepparent. Suggestions for opening dialogue between partners coming from entirely different backgrounds, and problem solving steps and procedures are prescribed.

The viewpoints of the stepparent, the biological parent, and the child are detailed. This makes it somewhat easier to understand one another.

Teamwork and the re-establishment of the household are the major emphasis here. The discussion starters that Lofas suggests between two partners can be a bit painful and emotional, but help lead to a better understanding of each other. Thus, a stronger bond is created.


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Re:STEPPARENTING

I am saddened by all of Peter Gerlack's reviews of Jeannette Lofas's books. It is one thing to comment about a book, but when one uses the same comments about all book, and follows it up with self promotion. He mades the intentionof his comments suspect.

I poersonally have found all of her books vital to my clients.
Barry Miller, Ph.D.









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Sensible, Wise Advice for Stepparents

I'm not a stepparent yet, but I'm dating a divorced man with two kids and I want to educate myself on what to expect if/when we marry. This book presents the step situation from everyone's point of view--the kids, the bio parents, the stepparents, even grandparents. Potential problems are explained and sensible ways to deal with them are offered. What I liked best is that the author emphasizes the kids--what kind of home are you creating for them? How does what you do--from dating to planning your wedding--affect them?

This book has helped me overcome some of my fears about "what am I getting into." I feel much better prepared for the future.

I would give it more stars except for two flaws: 1) it doesn't go into enough detail on some subjects, such as ways to build a pleasant, respectful relationship with your stepkids, and 2) it is poorly written and edited. As an editor, I could hardly stand the numerous grammatical errors and awkwardly expressed thoughts.


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This is a must read for anyone in a step family situation

This book was recommended to me by a counselor. Everyone in my step family benefitted from its insight. We all got a better understanding of the problems we were experiencing. Topics such as where do I fit in & the importance of establishing rules & structure are addressed in an easy to read & understand format. I highly recommend this book to anyone in a step-family situation


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Jeannette Lofas draws on her twenty-year track record of counseling and coaching stepfamilies and provides up-to-the-minute advice on the many baffling and emotional issues that cause two out of three to fail. Lofas? research rates her methods at an 84% success rate.


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