If you're tired of being hurt by the hurting people in your life, Who's to Blame? will explain the dynamics of victimization, blame, and healing. You'll be given the tools you need to set appropriate boundaries for your relationships with these hurting people. Although no one is to blame in the victimization process, everyone is responsible. It's up to you to gain personal power in your relationships.
"This is an important book for anyone who wants to live as a powerful person. Clear, well-written, and offering useful advice, Who's to Blame? will help you live a more empowered and loving life."-Barbara DeAngelis, Ph.D., author of Real Moments
"Anyone who has ever felt like a victim-or has been called a 'victimizer'-will benefit enormously from this book. The authors unmask a highly complex and chronic set of dynamics and provide a clear way out. This book will be looked back upon as a watershed in our struggle to both understand and remediate the relationships that lead to victimization."-Neil Clark Warren, Ph.D., author of Make Your Anger Your Ally
"This book is helpful for therapists, as well as their clients. It provides fresh insight into the realization that we are all both victims and victimizers. This book will help us see beyond our pain to our potential for empowerment."-Ralph H. Earle, Ph.D., ABPP
"With penetrating insight and genuine compassion, Berry and Baker help readers move beyond personal victimization and avoid revictimization by those who won't. Must reading!"-Sandra D. Wilson, Ph.D., visiting professor, Trinity Evangelical Divinity School and author of Released from Shame