Sex Changing Instruction Manual With Blithe Disregard for Safer Sex

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	• Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot: Not Your Mother's Orgasm Book! (Positively Sexual) Deborah Sundahl Hunter House, 2003 - 288 pages average customer review:based on 21 reviews view larger image
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Sex Changing Instruction Manual With Blithe Disregard for Safer Sex

I read the 2003 paperback edition. Having read previously the 2002 Sexual Selections: What We Can and Can't Learn About Sex from Animals by a liberal feminist biologist, one could get the impression, women can't ejaculate. Reading that, I had had it with false information and ordered this book to make sure. The choice of literature may have been a bit arbitrary, as there are numerous books on the subject available by now (in 2008).

Clearing up the myth of female ejaculatory denial by giving precise and easy-to-handle instructions is worth 5 stars already. I mean, really: Here we are in the age of finding traces of water on Mars, but can't find the well in our lover's or our own vagina! The book touches upon the control of ejaculation without orgasm, orgasm without ejaculation and multiple orgasms in both, females and males. The author doesn't provide instructions for males, though and remains tentative on the ways for males to achieve all of this. Which is partly a good decision, as the one way she is referencing is the Taoist procedure of "inhibitatory ejaculation", which can turn out to be risky to your health, if not adequately taught. And many books which specialize on that issue actually fail to do so. However, there are other and easier ways of "alternative" male orgasm, which she isn't even mentioning. But then again, all of the latter isn't really the content of the book according to its title, so that's ok.

Chapter 7 claims to be for both: Male and female lovers of women, but on a closer look I would say, it's not REALLY going beyond heterosexuality. I am a bit sceptic that you would have to take anything out of the vagina for ejaculation in every single case. For sure, she doesn't write anything about the possibility of female ejaculation via sole or added anal stimulation. The book is mildly repetitive and might have suffered not too much without the sex kitsch fiction included here and there, though I wasn't really bothered by that either.

I seriously considered subtracting more than one star for the blatant disregard for safer sex. The main reason why I ordered this book was actually to find out, wether the female ejaculate carries the HI-virus or not. As of 2003, according to the author, no studies have been done. Which is a scandal, but hardly the author's fault. Yet, there wasn't really a study of the consistency of the female ejaculate either. That didn't stop the author from carrying it into a lab for analysis. Which begs for the question, why she didn't carry an HIV-positive female's ejaculate to the lab, too, for analysis. Recognizing the lack of such studies, she's is giving the following (PSEUDO) safer sex advice: If you are HIV positive, tell you lover! That advice (alone) is problematic on so many levels, including that many HIV-positives don't know that they carry the virus, but are especially virulent shortly after their own infection, that I have to complain most vehemently against that ill advice and the tip to "flood your sweetie's mouth". It gets worse still when she writes about stains on the bedsheet during parts of the menstrual cycle. She doesn't really specify, what causes these stains, but by all available suggestion, she's referring to menstrual blood. If not, she is making the mistake of not clarifying that. Her advice for the lover against such stains: "Gulp it down", for "swallowing could be the tidiest option available". If this book and similar ones with the same utter neglect for safer sex turn the public into a wave of stained female ejaculate gulpers, the AIDS pandemic has the potential of reaching new and unseen peaks.

I know this criticism is a downer. The message is: Enjoy the new found ecstasy and engage in it responsibly. Till the time, studies of stained and unstained female ejaculate have been proven as harmless as saliva or a male's precum, act wise and refrain from mucous membrane contact with it.

You may be interested in reading The Science of Orgasm and Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Science and Sex.

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This world needs more people like Deborah Sundahl!

This world needs more people like Deborah Sundahl! Anyone who is prepared to lay it on the line in order to help others deserves more than a pat on the back.

This book is clear and concise. Written respectfully and with a sensitivity that obviously comes from experience and great knowledge.

The resourses section in the book are also very useful. There is a little draw back in that most of the information provided is American based. For those of us that do not reside in America this can be a little difficult but with todays technology, it is not too high a hurdle.

Well worth owning this book, even those of you how can"t be bothered with a "steady as she goes approach" to sex. You will find the information in this book handy oneday! Surprise yourself. I did!

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Rewarding

Although the book's audience was for women, I found the content informative and would have enjoyed reading it years ago. On the less than positive side, I believe the author was soliciting the purchase of other books on like topics.

GIVES WOMEN A CHOICE

The G-spot and female ejaculation has not been written about very much. This book is the answer to that particular problem. Women who want to locate their spot and learn to ejaculate will have no trouble accomplishing this feat after they have read this informative book. This topic, along with the art of cunnilingus, is discussed in the book The Sensuous Couple's (Flip Over) Guide to Seismic Oral Sex. It contains even more information about female sexuality and orgasm. The unique thing about it is that it is a "flip-over" book, which means it is all about cunnilingus on one side, then flip it over and it is all about fellatio on the other. Greate for a couple. Buy it and this one together for a great addition to your sexual library.

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Opens New Doors For Female Sexuality

If you're female and think clitoral stimulation is your only practical option for successful orgasm... think again. The majority of women have been missing out on an integral part of female sexuality and this book will help release the flood waters. It has definitely aided in a sexual renaissance for me. I feel like I have a new part of me to explore and enjoy!

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Like men, women also can ejaculate, enhancing and intensifying their sexual pleasure. In an open, positive style, Deborah Sundahl presents information about female ejaculation including scientific findings, anatomical illustrations, historical accounts, a chapter on how men can help their female partners to ejaculate, and women?s and men?s experiences collected during the past two decades.

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