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Memories of My Melancholy Whores
Gabriel Garcia Marquez

Knopf, 2005 - 128 pages

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An Outstanding Piece of Literature

As an author of great books, Gabriel Garcia Marquez has done it again with this beautifully written novel. Perhaps it should be described as a novella, since it is such a short one. However, it is packed with a tender message of humanity that is not seen often enough in current popular writings. It portrays a very elderly man who desires to experience a virgin as a gift for his 90th birthday. That is only the premise of the story. The actual interplay amongst the characters is far more complex, and the emotional attachment our protagonist has for the young lady he encounters is more of a spiritual one of distant reverance. This is not a political book as have been some of his prior works, but rather Marquez's best writings that "holds up a mirror to nature". It is well worth the read, and I highly recommend it for mature audiences of fine literature.
Dale Haufrect, M.D., M.A.
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The stranger at home

The pitfalls of consumerism: I had bought expensive tickets for uncomfortable seats in a concert of Lorin Maazel and his NY big band. They gave me Rossini, Mozart, and Brahms, and all was nice and as expected, and that was highly unsatisfactory, because we want to have our expectations exceeded.
So I went home grumbling and picked up this little book from my daughter's bookshelf. And then GGM made things right for me. Far better than expected. Not just the colorful tale of a macho braggard that the title might suggest. Rather something like a retrospective bucket list. Lots of enchanting observations on age.
'My notion of youth was so flexible I never thought it was too late.' Let's buy him a ticket to the Nicholson movie.
'I was tormented by the little daemon who whispers into our ear the devastating replies that we didn't give.' See: that's the advantage of Amazon, we can change our statements.
For some of my AFs: there is a cat in the story, and lots of music!
And by the way, the Noble committee did get it right once in a while.


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I wanted to like it more

MEMORIES OF MY MELANCHOLY WHORES by Gabriel Garcia Marquez
May 8, 2008

Rating *** 1/2 (3.5/5 Stars)

I really wanted to LOVE this book, but I think again my problem with Gabriel Garcia Marquez (this being the 3rd piece of fiction that I've read by him) is that I am either not focused on the writing, or I'm simply not getting it. When I enjoy a book, I turn the last page with a WOW feeling, or I'm crying, or I wish the book hadn't ended. With MEMORIES OF MY MELANCHOLY WHORES, I didn't have any of these reactions. Yes, I loved the writing - he has a gift for details, and he doesn't hold back. I love that he enjoys writing about illness and bodily fluids, and I'm always laughing out loud during these passages. But when I finished the book, I didn't have the "wow" sensation I expected to have.

The main character, who remains nameless throughout the book, is about to celebrate his 90th birthday, and wants to give himself a present in the form of a virginal prostitute. He has had prostitutes, hundreds of them, but this time he wants something special. She needs to be untouched and young. His old friend, a madam he has gone to for years, promises to obtain what he wants, and she brings him a young girl, virginal, for his birthday. However, for some reason, he never deflowers her. He instead leaves her untouched (as she gives him the sign that she is frightened) and marvels at her body and her beauty.

At the same time, he turns to his memories and his long life, his career as a journalist, and the fact that he never married. And night after night, he does not touch this virginal girl, and the one thing that has never happened to him happens - he falls in love.

I love reading Gabriel Garcia Marquez because his words are so beautiful. But again, I felt that I couldn't grasp what he really wanted to say in this book. I am disappointed that I don't have the capacity to really appreciate his works, and this will be the last time I will attempt to read a fiction book of his. However, I will read his autobiography, which I hope will be a fascinating read.


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A parable on sex, and love, and the bed they make to lie in.

This book's genius is its masterful infusion with the element of surprise. The story's title suggests that we will perhaps be subjected to a nostalgic self-indulgent account of the sexual adventures of some callous testosterone-bloated man. Instead, we find a hero who is thoughtful, generous, and exquisitely sensitive and attuned to his lovers' slightest moves. Our stud-hero is cast as a journalist who finds himself a very old man. This leads us (or at least me) to expect him to present as a pedantic pseudo-intellectual scribe, who will wax philosophical about his lechery, so as to create the illusion that he remains a force to be reckoned with. Instead, the hero is revealed as a model of self-effacement, and one who is often remorseful at past behaviors toward his paid lovers, agonizing over several of these for half a century. And his philosophical insights flow in a lyrical style devoid of any pedantry.
Surprise is also delivered through Garcia-Marquez's signature blanketing of his story with symbolism, unexpected metaphors, contrasting images, and juxtaposed `opposites': In one scene we see the hero as the impulsive and brutish (then penitent, then recidivist) rapist of his housekeeper. Then, on the heels of this vignette we see our "conqueror" as timid, almost trembling, as he eyes his served-up sleeping virgin. We see prostitutes wearing garish make-up, but also pendants of the Virgin.
The key `'surprise' for me however, was in the balance of power between the sexes. The hero is painted--often with theatrical excess-- as a dominant prowling male. Yet in the majority (if not all) of his liaisons he lives in fear that at any moment he will be (or has been) snubbed or discarded by his quarry, and thus repeatedly finds himself completely at her mercy. I see this paradox (of the hunter as beholden to his prey) as a key to what was for me the book's main message: that (for men at least), success in 'passion' (defined in book as conquest and possession of prized love target(s)--regardless of the lofty vs. banal nature of attributes each considers requisite in a`prized' lover--is a powerful vehicle that can be transforming and life-altering in its potency to generate success across the broad spectrum of his life ambitions.
I'll close by adding my spin to the musing among reaviwers as to whether this is primarily a book of love, sex, or old age: it's a book about how they all interact! Of how the power of requited passion can transform a man at any age, into one who becomes as creative, inspired, and alive as man can be.




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Short and sweet...

A quick and very enjoyable read, though I would not put this book among the author's best work. It has some of the tenderness and whimsy of his masterpiece "Love in the Time of Cholera" but feels a bit cursory and perhaps a bit predictable if you are familiar with GG Marquez's work, though without the wild flights of imagination of "100 Years of Solitude."

I won't bother with a plot synopsis since that's what most of the other reviewers have done already, but will say that if you have never read Marquez before, you are likely to be impressed by this book much more than I was.


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"The year I turned ninety, I wanted to give myself the gift of a night of wild love with an adolescent virgin." So begins Memories of My Melancholy Whores, and it becomes even more unlikely as the novel unfolds. This slim volume contains the story of the sad life of an unnamed, only slightly talented Colombian journalist and teacher, never married, never in love, living in the crumbling family manse. He calls Rosa Cabarcas, madame of the city's most successful brothel, to seek her assistance. Rosa tells him his wish is impossible--and then calls right back to say that she has found the perfect girl.

The protagonist says of himself: "I have never gone to bed with a woman I didn't pay ... by the time I was fifty there were 514 women with whom I had been at least once ... My public life, on the other hand, was lacking in interest: both parents dead, a bachelor without a future, a mediocre journalist ... and a favorite of caricaturists because of my exemplary ugliness."

The girl is 14 and works all day in a factory attaching buttons in order to provide for her family. Rosa gives her a combination of bromide and valerian to drink to calm her nerves, and when the prospective lover arrives, she is sound asleep. Now the story really begins. The nonagenarian is not a sex-starved adventurer; he is a tender voyeur. Throughout his 90th year, he continues to meet the girl and watch her sleep. He says, "This was something new for me. I was ignorant of the arts of seduction and had always chosen my brides for a night at random, more for their price than their charms, and we had made love without love, half-dressed most of the time and always in the dark, so we could imagine ourselves as better than we were ... That night I discovered the improbably pleasure of contemplating the body of a sleeping woman without the urgencies of desire or the obstacles of modesty."

Márquez's style never falters throughout this recounting of his life and his exploration of love, found at an unexpected time and place. The erstwhile lover is still capable of being surprised--and fulfilled. After an absence of ten years, it is a treat to have another parable from the master. --Valerie Ryan


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