A must read for women involved in affairs

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	• Will He Really Leave Her for Me?: Understanding Your Situation, Making Decisions for Your Happiness Rona B. Subotnik Adams Media Corporation, 2005 - 239 pages average customer review:based on 9 reviews view larger image
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highly recommended

Been there, done that

It was though the author of this book got into my head and wrote about everything I was thinking and feeling. The non-judgemental tone was a much needed relief and sets this book apart from almost everything else I've read on the subject. Although I highly recommend this book, there were a few quirks that I didn't especially like. First, the author makes reference to fiction and movies for examples. This isn't totally ineffective, but it seemed odd to me. Second, she repeatedly said there were three possible outcomes: continue the affair, end the affair and relationship, or the man divorces his wife and marries his lover. How about he leaves his wife and then continues his relationship with his lover but they don't marry? Finally, the book focused entirely on married men. How do the principles apply to an unmarried man with a long-time girlfriend that he's cheating on? This does happen. I am the "other woman" in just such a case.

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First rate help for a painful situation

This book is a must for women who are having affairs. In a very readable and respectful way, Rona Subotnik helps women to understand why women make these choices to have affairs. This book does not condone affairs in any way. This book explores the magnitude of such choices and the outcomes of affairs. She is helping all women, both the wives and the other women in this wonderfully written book. It is very important for women to understand their behavior, its impact on all concerned, and to face their issues and to work toward a happy and healthy future. Five big stars and cheers for Rona Subotnik! This book is a must!

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A dose of reality

Ms. Subotnik really brings reality to the table in this book. Without judging "the other woman", she brings up points that we may have put out of our minds in pursuit of "The One", who happens to be married to someone else.

What if we waste years yearning, and even believing his promises that he'll leave her when this or that happens, only to find ourselves older and unable to have children, or having wasted years of our time waiting for something that never happens? Is it worth it?

She constantly brings up those important aspects of reality we'd rather ignore, and asks us "is it worth it?".

This book is a great wake-up call for those of us in relationships that will probably never go beyond affairs with married men. The odds are heavily against us that he'll never leave his wife for us. Ms. Subotnik makes this very clear.

5 stars all the way.

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A must read for the "other woman"

I wish I had read this book about 1 year ago, but maybe it wasn't the right time. I have been in a relationship (affair) for almost 2 years. It has been heart wrenching, emotional, and a test of who I am. This book really helps you to analyze who you are, why you are in this situation. And helps you to be honest about where it might be going. It is NOT a chick-lit, Lifetime kind of book. It is written by someone who has seen both sides and is not judging you for why you're here, rather trying to really help you to examine things and be strong to become happier. Anyone is this situation knows how abnormal the relationship is, despite the feelings you may have for this person. PLEASE read it if you're here, and you will be better off for doing so, no matter what comes of everything.

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A must read for women involved in affairs

The author absolutely understands affairs and the dynamics involved in them. More importantly; she provides sound advice to help you make a sound decision if you are involved in one. The outcome may be painful but in the end you may walk away with some self-awareness, compassion and understanding of yourself.

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You?ve found the man for you?and you know you belong together. But he belongs to somebody else. He says he doesn?t love her anymore?but he?s still with her. Your friends and family tell you to forget him, but how can you?
True love wasn?t supposed to be like this. You must sort out your feelings, decide what to do, and protect your own emotional health?no matter what your decision. Will He Really Leave Her for Me? is the lifeline you need to explore such questions as:
How can you tell if he really will leave her? Are you in this relationship for the right reasons? How will you take care of yourself if the relationship ends? What are the foundations for a good marriage if he does leave his wife?
With examples drawn from her private practice and a deft understanding of your feelings, licensed therapist Rona B. Subotnik helps you to analyze your situation realistically and compassionately. Will He Really Leave Her for Me? provides the comfort and counsel you need to chart the best course of action?with or without him.

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