The fact is that relationships, whether dating or married, are hard. Things do not always go perfectly,
fighting does occur, and it takes a 100% commitment from both parties to make it a success. Often
when people break off a relationship, they feel as though something is missing. The ?spark? has gone,
leaving one or both people feeling inadequate and unfulfilled.
However, even though the odds are not very good, healthy, and long-lasting relationships are
definitely possible and proven by many people. Look at Paul Newman and Joanne Woodard, Danny
Devito and Rhea Perlman, or Nancy and Ronald Regan. What secrets do they possess? The answer is
that they all work hard at their relationship. They made a decision of choosing to love their mate
rather than relying on the ?warm and fuzzy? feelings, which everyone knows will fade. By making
love a choice you are making a decision that even in the bad times, you stick it out.
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