The Verbally Abusive Relationship: How to Recognize it and How to Respond222 reviews
Patricia Evans

Adams Media, 2003

This book saved my soul

+ Amazing Book
+ A must read
+ Not all Abusers are Men, Not all victims are women
+ Instrumental in My Recovery
  
  











  



  
Boundaries (Fireside/Parkside Recovery Book)30 reviews
Anne Katherine

Fireside, 1993

This book should be subtitled, "Life 101"!

+ Find Your Personal Boundries
+ Very Pleased
+ Excellent Resource
  
  











  



  
The Mom Factor14 reviews
John Townsend, Henry Cloud, ...

Zondervan, 1998

This Book Will Change Your Life!

+ Understand your mom, and yourself as a mom!

For so long I've mostly heard about how important a father is in a child's development. I've never heard anyone else speak about how profound the mother's role is in the child's devlopment like this book does. I feel like I've gone to the eye doctor and have been given new glasses to see more ...
  
  











  



  
People of the Lie: The Hope for Healing Human Evil146 reviews
M. Scott Peck

Touchstone, 1998

a helpful primer on thinking about evil

+ DANGER - This is a life-changing book
+ The Ability to Recognize Human Evil is Crucial for Self-Preservation

After reading, enjoying, and becoming inspired by The Road Less Travelled I had to take Dr. Peck's writing seriously. People of the Lie was a wrenching departure from his first book, a "nice book", as he says. Even tho I am no longer a Christian and in spite of the Christian overtones of POTL, I ...
  
  











  



  
Adult Children: The Secrets of Dysfunctional Families14 reviews
John C. Friel Ph.D., Linda D. Friel M.A.

HCI, 1988

Nobody teaches this stuff. Read it!

+ A Good Read
+ Thank You
+ insightful
  
  











  



  
Take the Bully by the Horns: Stop Unethical, Uncooperative, or Unpleasant People from Running and Ruining ...24 reviews
Sam Horn

St. Martin's Griffin, 2003

A Possible Problem Solver

+ GRAB HOLD AND HANG ON
+ Be Bullied No More!
+ Like a martial arts course in self-assertiveness
+ bully tips for all ages
  
  











  



  
Where to Draw the Line: How to Set Healthy Boundaries Every Day23 reviews
Anne Katherine

Fireside, 2000

Healthy Boundaries

+ An Excellent Resource
+ Couldn't put this down

This book is very well-written in easy-to-understand language. After reading this, I have a very clear idea of healthy boundaries and am now able to discern when boundaries are being violated. Definitely worth reading.
  
  











  



  
Children of the Self-Absorbed: A Grown-Up's Guide to Getting over Narcissistic Parents68 reviews
Nina W. Brown

New Harbinger Publications, 2001

Excellent Starter for Self Evaluation

+ It's not all about you, Mom
+ Learn your history, Learn your self
+ Children of the Self-Absorbed
+ Children of the Self-Absorbed
  
  











  



  
Divorcing a Parent: Free Yourself from the Past and Live the Life You've Always Wanted9 reviews
Beverly Mfcc Engel

Ballantine Books, 1991

Help for the hardest decision you may ever have to make.

+ Reviews
+ Divorcing a Parent: Free Yourself from the Past
+ Wishing I'd Seen This Four Years Ago!
+ Great book
  
  











  



  
The Sociopath Next Door215 reviews
Martha Stout

Broadway, 2005

Essential Reading

+ i see the light
+ all people should read & heed
+ the sociopath next door
+ The Psychopath Next Door
  
  











  



  
Without Conscience: The Disturbing World of the Psychopaths Among Us110 reviews
Robert D. Hare

The Guilford Press, 1999

Highly readable intro to psychopaths by world's leading expert

+ Fascinating and Informative
+ A Truly Insightful Book
+ Without Conscience: The Disturbing World of the Psychopaths Among Us
+ ASSISTANCE IS FUTILE!
  
  











  



  
Controlling People: How to Recognize, Understand, and Deal with People Who Try to Control You68 reviews
Patricia Evans

Adams Media, 2003

Insightful

+ If you have ANYONE in your life whom you feel is controlling read this book.

Patricia Evans has done it again. She has written a book that I could not put down. "Controlling People" examines much of the subtle and not so subtle behavior you and I have experienced from others, have felt uncomfortable about and even felt worse because of. I always knew someone in my family ...
  
  











  



  
When You and Your Mother Can't Be Friends: Resolving the Most Complicated Relationship of Your Life26 reviews
Victoria Secunda

Delta, 1991

Great Book for Learning about our Mothers!

+ Unique and Special Approach

I read this book the day I received it in the mail (which was only two days after I had ordered it, by the way)! It was like reading about my life and my dealings with my mother. This book pinpoints the different ways mothers destructively rear their children. There are tons of real-life ...
  
  











  



  
The Wizard of Oz and Other Narcissists: Coping with the One-Way Relationship in Work, Love, and Family71 reviews
Eleanor Payson

Julian Day Publications, 2002

A Must Read for All People!

+ A very good book!
+ Excellent Book!
+ Hidden Gem
+ Uncanny
  
  











  



  
Love Is A Choice Breaking The Cycle Of Addictive Relationships14 reviews
Robert Hemfelt, Frank Minirth, ...

Thomas Nelson, 1996

Don't be fooled by the children

+ Why I keep doing It to myself
+ Growth through Hard Work
+ Love Is a Choice Workbook
+ Love Is A Choice
  
  











  



  
Why Is It Always About You? Saving Yourself from the Narcissists in Your Life79 reviews
Sandy Hotchkiss, James F. Masterson

Free Press, 2002

Perfectly titled volume!

+ Knowledge is Power
+ A definite must-read!
+ Why is it Always About You?
  
  











  



  
How to Say No Without Feeling Guilty: And Say Yes to More Time, and What Matters Most to You20 reviews
Patti Breitman, Connie Hatch

Broadway, 2001

Much useful advice about a subject we're never taught!

+ Book..How to SAY NO

Heard the cassette program, HOW TO SAY NO WITHOUT FEELING GUILTY--written and read by Patti Breitman and Connie Hatch . . . and am so glad that I did, in that it contains much useful advice on this useful topic that nobody ever teaches us about. Think about it . . . we get bombarded with ...
  
  











  



  
Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life235 reviews
Henry Cloud, John Townsend

Zondervan, 2002

Boundaries is the icing on the cake of healing!

+ MorganD
+ Not a Doormat anymore
+ Think twice about critical reviews...
  
  











  



  
The Narcissistic Family: Diagnosis and Treatment46 reviews
Stephanie Donaldson-Pressman, Robert M. Pressman

Jossey-Bass, 1997

A great book for helping oneself....

+ Very helpful
+ enlightening!
+ A new beginning
+ The Narcissistic Family: Diagnosis and Treatment
  
  











  



  
Toxic Parents: Overcoming Their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your Life119 reviews
Susan Forward, Craig Buck

Bantam, 2002

Most significant book I have ever read

+ The best of therapy in a book!
+ Also read "Be Sweet" by Roy Blount Jr

I read this book when it first came out in the early 90s. It made me realize that my sister and I were not crazy - our mother was! Our mother had caused us a lot of pain with her belief that her needs always needed to come first. The book opened my eyes. We eventually both broke it off with the ...